Now that is an interesting question. While the woman at the well didn’t really ask it, Jesus answered it.
Sometimes we don’t know the question to ask. Or if we do, we don’t ask it.
God doesn’t want us to fake it. He wants us to be honest in our worship. He wants us to be our selves.
That is the kind of people He loves the most. God’s goal for me is to come to Him just like I am. He knows me at my core. I can’t deceive Him. When I’m myself, I see Him for who He is.
“That’s the kind of people the Father is out looking for: those who are simply and honestly themselves before him in their worship.” ~~Jesus (John 4:24 The Message)