I get into arguments sometimes. Not pleasant to admit but it is true. God’s goal for me is to not quarrel and argue. No doubt about that. I am foolish if I pick a fight.
God gives me the power, through his Holy Spirit, to love and not get into arguments. The alternative is to be a fool. Not very attractive.
It’s a mark of good character to avert quarrels, but fools love to pick fights. ~~King Solomon (Proverbs 20:3)